Thursday, December 13, 2012

Expressing Joy

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 I love this house.   

It makes me smile just to drive by it.  The other night, as I drove by and smiled at this sight on the way to the grocery store, I started to think about why I loved this house so much.

1.     The people who live here totally get JOY and CELEBRATION.  Celebration is oozing out of this house! The inhabitants have clearly dedicated time and energy to this display—and they held nothing back.  This house and its lights scream out excitement—about what’s already here and anticipation for what’s to come.

2.     Not only is this display all about joy and celebration, it’s about SHARING that.  How many of us hide our passions and happiness because we fear judgment or disapproval?  Growing up as a geeky kid, I know that experience—and sometimes that little voice that tells me to keep something to myself still whispers in my ear—but these people?  If they hear that voice, they are not listening.  I totally respect that.

3.     This celebration is RANDOM and ECLECTIC.  These decorations didn’t come in a matched set with perfectly coordinated colors and pieces.  This is a collection of things that looks to me like it has been built over time and by adding whatever caught someone’s attention.  I almost imagine a whole family, each member choosing their own favorite set of lights or object, and adding it to the scene.  These decorations demonstrate an attitude of finding beauty in anything—perfection and matching not required.

4.     This house STANDS ON ITS OWN.  I have seen houses a bit like this in clusters before—streets where homeowners coordinate and sometimes compete with each other over their decorations.  Although some of those displays might rival this one in terms of magnitude, they lose something by being together for me.  These homeowners aren’t afraid to stick out.  They are reveling in their uniqueness. 

Imagine living like that—expressing your joy and not caring what other people think.  It would be liberating.  It would be a celebration.  It would be as beautiful and complex as this house. 




 

1 comment:

  1. I know that house! The thing I most appreciate about it is that it doesn't look overdone in spite of itself. Even though there are thousands of lights, plus ornaments and all the rest, it doesn't look like it was done just to be "the-house-with-all-the-lights". Not to say I don't call it "the-house-with-all-the-lights" around here but to me it feels like it came about more naturally.

    I've seen houses similar but with dozens of Santas and snowmen and herds of reindeer. To me they seem like elements were added just to have more, whereas this house says, "We like Christmas lights, so we got a lot of them!"

    It reminds me of the odd advice one of my coworkers would often tell me- you have to let your freak flag fly. As hard as it can be I think that makes sense. Sometimes you have to let the true you out to play otherwise we all end up looking, sounding and eventually *thinking* the same. Who wants that?

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